How technology has changed our perspective
There’s a famous Stanford study about delayed gratification that involved kids and marshmallows. It went something like this:
Researchers guided children one at a time into a room. Inside the room was a table with a marshmallow on it. The researcher told the child that if she waited just 15 minutes, when the researcher returned the child would receive two marshmallows.
Note: Sometimes the reward was a cookie or pretzel. The children had a median age of 4 years, 6 months, so really any of the choices would have attracted their attention!
Some of the children ate the treat straight-up, no chaser. Others tried everything in their power to not eat the treat. They would cover their eyes, sing, and turn away. The point is that some kids distracted themselves and waited.
But not necessarily patiently.
This study popped into my head a few nights ago. As a Christmas gift for our family, we purchased a Hulu subscription.
While I don’t spend time watching TV (no cable for at least 13 years) I do enjoy a little down time via Netflix and Prime, but neither of those has the most recent episodes of
And I love watching Gotham.
That’s the problem.
Anyone who has Netflix knows that when a TV show becomes available on Netflix, the entire season is available, but there’s usually a waiting period before this happens. Sometimes the wait is a full year!
What do we do when our favorite show magically appears on Netflix? We binge the entire season the minute it becomes available. We lose sleep just so we can watch our beloved show.
Ok, maybe that’s just me.
Back to Hulu.
The most recent episodes of Gotham are available week-to-week just like shows were when I was a kid. (Back then we had to get up to change the channel. There was no remote. The kids were the remote. High five if you can relate! I remember when my family got cable. That was a big deal.)
When I finished watching Gotham, I felt satisfied. It was a strange feeling. I knew I wouldn’t be able to watch the next episode immediately, but that was okay.
That’s delayed gratification. And, guess what? It felt pretty good.
